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CHESTERFIELD WANTS TO TELL PARENTS THEY ARE NOT IN CHARGE

Posted by RCaldwell on June 22, 2012

There is a proposed law currently in Chesterfield that would hold a parent of children who host underage drinking parties responsible for the child’s decisions.

Read through http://www.stltoday.com/suburban-journals/metro/news/social-hosting-law-might-crash-the-party-in-chesterfield/article_1de2efd4-d32b-5ce2-b679-4396f0e5ee12.html for an idea of the issue.

There is one major problem with this law. 

There is no way a parent could keep such party from happening.  How would a parent who works out of the country, who has no friends, who has no family, ensure that his/her household would remain party free? Lock the children out of the house? Pay a stranger to keep the child?

The only absolute way to keep the child from having a party is to keep the child out of the house.  If the parent chooses to keep the kid in the house, the parent would have to hire help.  This must assume the help would never leave the house.  The help leaves for groceries because the child cannot buy them, and during that time, the child invites over a couple of friends, gets into the alcohol, messages fly, and the neighborhood kids are all there, in a matter of minutes.  The child has no respect for authority, ignores the help, the help calls the police, and bingo, the parent is on the hook.

Obviously, this would be an extreme situation, but should the parent really be held accountable for that decision?

Is the state of affairs in peaceful Chesterfield so terrible, that parents can no longer leave their children at home alone?  Are there riots in the streets?  Delinquents swamping the Chesterfield municipal court? 

If you are a parent in Chesterfield, this proposed law should concern you.

If this law passes, and you are charged, contact McMichael & Logan today.

Comments:

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A Christmas letter from one of our past flamiiesHello Eileen! I wanted to let you know that we think about you and the others at UPCCC ALL THE TIME! The care that our children got from you and your staff has been truly unparalleled by our experiences here in the US and we also miss all the friendships we had there. The children are growing fast..as they do and are thriving. Ashby is still an easy-going happy little boy, now just 21 months old. Saying lots of words and really communicating a lot through signing and talking. He is a real sweetheart. I really wish he could have stayed on at UPCCC longer; I feel like he really missed out. Adah will still talk your ear off until the cows come home. It's hard to get a word in edge-wise with her. She is still outgoing, athletic and full of energy. She misses Tongbo dearly and keeps asking if we can go back to Australia to visit Tongbo. Her teachers continue to be amazed by her skills with a pair of scissors something that Tongbo encouraged and taught her to do. She is now a star soccer player, outrunning all the other 4 to 6 year-olds and scoring lots of goals. We have switched daycares once since arriving here, from a Jewish one to a Lutheran one (almost all of them are religiously affiliated somehow). The class size was oddly too small at the first place for Adah, who needs lots of social interaction with peers her age. The new place is much better for her and she always has a smile on her face when I come to pick her up. Ashby is so easy-going that I fear he may get neglected, but he has bonded with his carers and seems to be happy. We have run into a lot of issues regarding the handing out of candy as bribes for homework in preschool, and at holiday times, and unhealthy snacks in general which really makes us appreciate the practices at UPCCC where these things were never a problem. It is so challenging here to ensure that they are getting healthy food all the time. It is no wonder that diabetes and obesity are such a problem when you see what everyone is eating, especially the kids. Most daycares provide lunches of chicken nuggets, pizza, macaroni and cheese, etc. and we had a hard time finding one where we could bring our own food. Perhaps this is true in Australia as well. The other quality that UPCCC has is the incredible attention to detail with respect to each child that the staff members have. I really felt that my children were being watched closely and any change in behaviour was noted and their needs were recognized and met. After reading a recent assessment of Ashby's development, it is clear that they have not recognized his ability to perform various milestones that are quite obvious to me. I list these things out not to complain, but to take the opportunity to give you all a BIG pat on the back. What you do is amazing and it is worth its weight in gold correction, platinum! Not just for the parents' peace of mind, but for the positive and nurturing influence you have on every child's life.We wish all of you a very, very happy Christmas and do truly wish we could be there with you. You stay close in our hearts and minds.With love,Andrea, Lex, Adah, and Ashby
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Posted by Xenia on
According to the FT regulator, Monitor, gooenrvrs should hold the Board to account for the trust’s performance, but Bernard doesn't mention the overall performance of the Trust at all. Chesterfield Royal Hospital NHSFT was rated in the worst 20% of similar FTs on more than a third of the key findings in the latest staff survey, with no change on any of them since the previous year, and Monitor itself appears to have had some concerns about the Trust's meeting its terms of authorisation.According to Monitor, Governors should also represent the interests of members, but Bernard doesn't mention that either. Apart from overseeing recruitment, gooenrvrs at that Trust would seem to have little contact with members and no means of discovering their interests.Ward visits and unannounced inspections are the job of the Care Quality Commission and the Local Involvement Network, which both, unlike gooenrvrs, have the legal authority to do that work. In evidence given to the Mid Staffordshire Public Enquiry, checking on cleanliness was cited as an example of the things that lay vistors to wards had tended to be too easily distracted by, so that they failed to notice the more serious problems that eventually led to so many deaths.I'm an FT governor myself, and I recognize the difficulties. It's all too easy for gooenrvrs to allow themselves to be sidetracked in the ways these governor profiles illustrate.
Posted by Alex on
I happened to be panissg back through (I would make an excuse but fact is I just like reading people's comments) and just thought I'd say about Chesterfield, to Tibbs, I don't know if you've seen the show Bottom out there in lovely ol' Canada, but there's an episode where they're being burgled and there's a crash and Richie goes I think that was the chesterfield! and Eddie goes Nah, I don't think it was that far away! and oh how we laughed. So the point, if I have one, is I think it's a piece of furniture over here too, but maybe associated with posh people. I will stop loitering now.
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I love that Chesterfield is an actual place. Don't know if you use chilserfeetd to mean a couch / sofa, or if that's just a Canadian thing (it may even be a Nova Scotian thing), but every time I see the place name I have a bit of a giggle.Oh, and Cymruangel apparently hasn't been able to see the most recent posts, so didn't know she was supposed to be in charge of collating people's thoughts on the blog; she says that pm'ing her on the forums () is probably the best way to get submissions to her.
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